Kalvin Ryder

I offer therapy which is responsive to your unique experiences and needs. With an integrated therapeutic approach, I draw from various models to suit each individual's unique needs. Whatever you may be facing, you will find understanding and acceptance here. For example, you may be exploring or navigating your LGBTQIA+ identity, BDSM/kink dynamics, multi-partner relationships like polyamory or non-monogamy, engaging in sex work or facing societal expectations around heteronormativity—including pressures related to marriage, children, family structures, and cohabitation. I work online with clients worldwide and in person in London, UK. Welcome to a therapeutic environment where every aspect of your identity is understood, deeply valued, and celebrated.

My name is Kalvin (MNCPS Accred and PG DIP), and I am the therapist at Sexuality Space. I am an accredited member of the BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy) and NCPS (National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society) and adhere to their ethical guidelines. My journey into understanding my own relationships, sexual identity, and authentic self has been a transformative experience. Having my own GSRD (Gender, Sexuality and Relationship Diversities) therapist was a revelation and changed my life for the better. This eye-opening journey inspired me to retrain as a therapist after 20 years in the music industry. I've seen first-hand the toll that unaddressed mental health issues can take, especially when fear and stigma prevent seeking help. My own growth and the profound impact of therapy led me to this path, where I can now extend that support to others.