Ruby Chong

Psychotherapist
I am a bilingual integrative psychotherapist, providing sessions in English, Cantonese or Mandarin. My aim is to gently support and help you feel more grounded in who you are, with more self-worth, more self-compassion, and less guilt when you take up space. You deserve to know your emotions matter, and that being different doesn’t make you unlovable.
My background
I work with people exploring their cultural, racial, or sexual identity, who are learning to balance honouring their family with staying true to themselves.Our work isn’t about blaming anyone. In our sessions, you don’t have to be afraid of being judged. Together, we gently look at how past experiences shape the patterns in your adult life. It’s not about blaming parents or families. I believe most did the best they could. Instead, therapy is a chance to notice those patterns, realise you now have choices, and begin taking responsibility for how you want to live. Clients often tell me they feel lighter after being truly seen and accepted, even when they’ve shared something they thought was “too much.” I create a space where every feeling is welcome and when the way forward feels unclear, I help shine a light without taking away your choice. My background growing up in Hong Kong helps me understand the weight of silence, responsibility, and cultural pressure. I know how easy it is to absorb others’ emotions until you lose sight of your own voice and how powerful it feels to find it again.
client-led approach combine different therapeutic theories and technique to tailor the process to your unique needs emphasis on therapeutic alliance In my practice, I draw from person-centred, attachment, and humanistic theories. This blend helps us explore your past, understand how it has shaped you, and recognise how those patterns show up in your adult life.
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment Theory
  • Body Image Issues
  • Burnout
  • Cultural and Systemic Oppression
  • Cultural Congruence
  • Depression
  • Family Conflict
  • Family Systems
  • Gender Identity
  • Immigration / Acculturation
  • LGBTQ Issues
  • Personal Growth
  • Racial Identity
  • Relational
  • Relationship / Marriage Issues
  • Self-Esteem
  • Self-Harming
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Women’s Issues
  • Humanistic
  • Integrative
  • Person Centered Therapy
  • Transactional Analysis (TA)
  • Individuals
  • Long Term (Face to Face)
  • Online Therapy
  • Short Term (Face to Face)

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